Stress, Alcohol & Travel, and Their Effect on Relationships
Stress is something that all of us experience every day of our lives. A certain amount of stress is productive because it keeps us alert as we adapt to changes in our environment. Stress occurs any time we contemplate a change in the direction of our lives, confront a situation we feel is threatening, or have to adjust either our thoughts or actions to meet new circumstances.
Each time a stress reaction occurs, it requires tremendous energy and places great strain on many of the body’s systems. It is not unusual for many people to experience this stress reaction several times a day regularly, resulting in enormous wear and tear on the body and the mind.
Experts on alcoholism say that people with drinking problems tend to gravitate toward jobs that require travel. Some of these experts believe that there is a higher rate of alcoholism in those who travel extensively for their careers than there is among non-travelers. Travel affords the drinker not only the freedom to drink but also the freedom to suffer a hangover in private.
Unfortunately, there are few studies on the effects of prolonged travel on businesswomen and men. Employers appear to be skipping over this particular aspect of corporate life perhaps for economic reasons. Few companies have enacted programs aimed at preventing problems generated by frequent or extensive travel.
However, it seems that a growing number of businesses have offered stress management workshops that focus on teaching participants how to cope with stress and manage its effects. The most common techniques are concerned with learning to relax and ease tension.
The first involves breathing systematically; the second technique involves learning progressive muscle relaxation while using the breathing techniques. Thirdly, it is helpful to learn how to control your thoughts during relaxation via the art of meditation. Finally, regular physical activity is known to be a catalyst for stress reduction. Additionally, some individuals may find it helpful to seek counseling while participating in a stress management program.
There are also specific plays to minimize the time pressures in travel. When you control the small-time pressures, big problems appear to be more manageable. According to Ross A. Weber, Professor of Management at the Wharton School of Business, here are some ways to minimize time-related stress during travel:
- When waiting for your plane to load, don’t rush to the gate immediately. Rather, wait for others to board and avoid the frantic rush. It’s easier than waiting in line.
- When deplaning, don’t bounce out of your seat. Instead, enjoy the spectacle of seeing your fellow passengers jostling each other just to save a few minutes.
- Do not run to catch a bus, train, or plane. If you do miss it, you could have an unexpected bonus of time…an isolated period that could be put to use working on material or simply relaxing.
- When driving, don’t frantically and dangerously shift lanes to seek the shortest line to approach a toll booth. Rather, accept the line most convenient, even if it is the longest. A minute or two later isn’t going to make a difference in your life.
While commuting, occasionally drive a different, perhaps longer and less busy route – it will be a small adventure that relaxes the tension.