Dr. Lenore Millian

Stress & the Holidays

The holiday season is often envisioned as a magical time filled with joy and happiness. However, for many, this period can become overwhelmingly stressful. The pressure to create perfect moments, from cooking the ideal meal to finding the perfect gifts, can detract from the very joy we seek to experience.

If you’re feeling the strain of the holiday season, here are some practical tips to manage stress and maintain your well-being:

  • Get Organized: Create lists to keep track of tasks and check them off as you complete them. This helps to keep everything under control.
  • Plan Ahead: Use a calendar to schedule your activities and responsibilities. For instance, plan to buy spices on Nov. 18 and retrieve decorations from the attic on Dec. 3.
  • Prioritize Tasks: Not everything is of equal importance. Focus on what matters most and let go of less critical tasks.
    Set Boundaries: Learn to say “no” to requests that exceed your energy limits. You don’t have to fulfill every obligation from family and friends.
  • Manage Expectations: Be realistic about what you can achieve. Remember, there are only so many hours in a day.
  • Take Breaks: Step away from holiday preparations regularly. Whether it’s a walk around the block or a moment to read, breaks help to maintain perspective.
  • Maintain Healthy Eating: Proper nutrition helps you stay energized and better manage stress.
  • Prioritize Self-Care: Taking care of yourself is crucial. If you’re not feeling your best, it’s harder to care for others effectively.
  • Focus on One Task at a Time: Avoid stressing over an uncompleted to-do list. Perfection is not necessary; tackle tasks one day at a time.
  • Accept Imperfection: Embrace the holiday season for what it is. Give yourself the gift of a stress-free attitude, even if things aren’t perfect.

Remember, the goal is to enjoy the holidays and create meaningful moments. By managing stress effectively, you can make the season enjoyable for yourself and those around you.